Friday, May 29, 2009

Tops/Bottoms?

I first saw this on the Men of Color Blog, but it is very interesting. It seems someone compared the ads on Craiglist to find out which cities have the most tops and bottoms. Very interesting, indeed. I will be conducting my own un-scientific research for the Dominican Republic.

27 comments:

Anonymous said...

Those numbers are laughable. There is no way in hell the City of Bottoms aka Atlanta has more tops than bottoms. Hell, not even DC. Most of the people that have 'Top' or 'Versatile' in their profile are bottoms in the dark. I can't wait to see what you compile for the numbers in the DR.

CLOAKED said...

looking at DC and ATL findings LOL that should be off the charts LOL

Nena Nuyorican said...

Anthony, I will be assisting with that non scientific study when I arrive in the DR, My findings previously was I encounted more "bottoms" than "tops" although they all said they were "tops" at first....! l m a o!

Anonymous said...

Anthony, They have Houston,Tx right on 100%, there are more bottoms here than Carter's got liver pills.. smile..I would be most interested to see what the ratio is in SDQ??? JIM Houston,Tx.

Richard said...

Definitions, please?

Anonymous said...

Let me add to the chorus of people who find in Santo Domingo that every guy claims to be a top but when the lights go out......they start rolling over.

Anonymous said...

Let me say this ,from my experience in SDQ, I have found most of the men (I have met) to be tops and not bottoms.However that is from a small limited number of men.I would have no use for another bottom... smile...but I am sure there are many bottoms if thats what one is looking for.I guess I need to visit NYC or D.C. where all the top men are..smile.. you lucky devils you..

Anonymous said...

Nena is a top, too!

Anonymous said...

Anthony, please publish a detailed statement of the procedures you will follow while conducting your research. It will make VERY interesting reading!

I presume you intend to conduct all your research personally. However, if you need assistance, please send me an SFO-SDQ-SFO return air ticket and expenses money (for the "interviewees") and reserve the top floor room at Camilo for my "laboratory."

I will be more than happy to contribute my expertise(???) to help you get to the BOTTOM of this deep and challenging research!

Cheers....George

Anonymous said...

Anthony, to keep the record clearly understood, there are many of us who would be more than happy to help you with all this fun interesting stinulating research..on this topic ..Oh what FUN THAT WOULD BE..smile ..

Anonymous said...

ok wait !!! Anthony!!
Aruba tops its all !! all bottom, and they are all woman, the woman are man and man are woman, They should have called the lesbian Island!!!
Ludwig, from the Bottom town, Houston!!

Nena Nuyorican said...

Thanks Anon/12:55pm~

I
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Toooooooo~!


hahahahah!

Nena Nuyorican said...

Now two "tops" meet up either cruizing out and about or at a club...they are HOT for each other and kiss, bump and grind. Both say they are gay men or on the DL and they don't "bottom"........!Now if a straight bottoms for that ONE special person why wouldn't a gay/DL dude do the same? It only takes someone special, someone you're feeling that D**k that looks HOT, the body and all and then all the "labels", "inhibitions" etc go out the window? and the KY goes deep in! and the throats begin to do the GAG reflex, the tongue lingers for go up and down the shaft. Let's all be honest how many PURE tops are there really? There is power in the "C**K" everyone wants to try it at least once~~~and some can't live without IT.
Some of us have known someone who was a TOP for years and then that one special person tore that A**hole UP but he's still a top,;)
well at least I do~~

as J from H says: smile!

Anonymous said...

Anthony please post your e-mail address. The one listed on Monaga doesn't seem to be up to date because I keep getting returned mail.

regi

Monaga said...

anthony.montgomery@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Ha!!!It will be interesting to know how anyone would do a survey of men who are top or bottom in the DR. Who, of the men surveyed.. unless they are obviously gay... is going to admit that they bottomed... even once? Good Luck...

Anonymous said...

Is it me or do we still have this disdain for 'bottoms' in the gay community? No wonder folks sheild themselves from that 'bottom' label. And if a guy flips, then suddenly everyone runs to the hills screaming that he's a bottom in the dark - get the gay police, I've been robbed!!! WTF? Why not just go with what you feel? Sexual behavior is one of the greatest puzzles, throughout time and eterniity. If you can get some hot azz from a 'top', mount him and celebrate it with him. Dayum, All you sexually repressive Ho's need to just chill and allow people to feel and be whomever they damn well please. and for Goodness sake, quit being a sissy about it and ENJOY THE SEX!

Anonymous said...

Balderdash! For one, Craigslist is used predominately by white men so it would not be a good gauge of black and latino men. Second, my bottom friends in DC, NYC and Miami all say that the ration is about 3 to 1 bottoms to tops.

Anonymous said...

And we wonder why we can't get respect from the straight community. We place labels on ourselves and discriminate against each other more than any other group. Who cares what someone does behind closed doors. When you really digging a person than things can happen. Stop trying to fit a certain way just be you.

Langston Baldwin said...

I agree that we must stop this nonsense. Had a guy tell me how high sex energy he is and how he is a top. I knew that he was not gonna be my "lover" so I refused to let him in. Did he not after time let me do him? So these guys lie about being tops. I am not a penetration police but believe we are all more 'vers" that we want to belive actually I think it's vers and bottoms, I think top is an illusion.

Anonymous said...

I do believe the common thread here is about a good conversation about which city has more tops or bottoms, thats all. So Why you uppity abut the topic, we are not trying to fit anyone into anything, it's just merely a general conversation.There is always one who trys to make something out of nonthing,who gives a rats ass what other people think ,were just chatting among ourselves here on this blog...some people think they know everything.. right Nena??? smile..How you feeling Nena?? guess who???smile...

Nena Nuyorican said...

LOL and someone called me a TOP (thinking it's my prima from Puerto Rico)The blog is fun, intentions are to give information, personal accts of the owner, and some stimulating chat....So I just enjoy Anthony's Blog for what is is...information, his personal adventures and insights to the life and times in the DR!

Jim, the asthma still not getting under control yet..the predisone is taking a toll but i'm working on it...thanks for asking!

Anonymous said...

D.C.GIRL
When it comes to d.c. theres just to many bottoms. however the DR is a nother story. plenty of tops and bottoms. yal stop making those top into bottoms lol!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I guess that there is really no scientific way to measure the ratio of tops to bottoms in any city or country. I just got back yesterday from SD where I met several fine guys. I met one guy who was going home from the gym and was packing a whopper. Once in my bed, he raised his legs so fast he hit me on the chin and almost knocked out my dentures. So, I had to do the deed. Like Forrest Gump said, "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are going to get!" Just enjoy it while you can.
From Puerto Rico,
Rafael

Nena Nuyorican said...

and Rafael called me a bugarrona, LOL LOL LOL .....I thought u was more "c**t" than that Rafi...lmao!!!

Show me him next time...coz i don't want sloppy seconds, LOL LOL!I heard back in PR they call you Don Donkey!

I know anthony this is crazy but it's a hoot!

Anonymous said...

This is all very interesting and in some ways too funny for words.I must say this topic has generated lots of interesting conversation from many different bloggers.(sp)
Nena how are you feeling? I know you need to take care and get plenty of rest. Take your steriods, they will help you over the most critical phase of your asthma attack.One feels so bad in the acute phase of this disease but hang in there better days are ahead.I thinking of you.JIM from Houston, Tx.

Marco said...

Well, I live in San Francisco and don't find bottoms as frequently as I'd like. I have a "stable" of buddies, but it's certainly not as easy the chart implies. Ft. Lauderdale is the capitol of bottoms. Good times in South Florida!